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At What Age Do You Start Feeling Tired and Old? What Changes

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By SterlingMedicalCenter.org Editorial Team

The Short Answer

There is no single age when people start to feel tired and old. None of the sources I could verify gives one. One large U.S. diary survey found that, on average, people rated themselves less tired as they got older, not more.

That does not mean your tiredness is imagined. Some changes really do arrive with age, such as lighter sleep and, for many women, the menopause transition. But MedlinePlus says fatigue that is not relieved by enough sleep, good nutrition, or a low-stress environment should be evaluated by a health care provider.

This page helps you sort your own situation into three buckets: what is typical, what is treatable, and what deserves a workup. It ends with a two-week energy log you can bring to a visit.

What the Research Says About Age and Tiredness

A study in the Journal of Gerontology: Series B, Psychological Sciences and Social Sciences used the 2010 American Time Use Survey. About 13,000 U.S. respondents wrote a diary about the previous day and rated how tired they felt during selected activities. The authors found that tiredness decreased with age. They described this as contrary to much earlier research.

What this does and does not tell you:

  • It describes averages across a large group. It cannot tell you how you should feel.
  • It is one survey year, and people rated their own tiredness during selected activities.
  • It did not measure how old people feel, and the abstract does not say why tiredness fell with age.
  • An average of “less tired” can still include many older people who are very tired for a treatable reason.

Decade-by-Decade Checklist: What the Sources Support About Sleep and Energy

The sources I could verify do not give energy or recovery figures for each decade, so this checklist does not invent any. It lists the changes the sources actually support, by life stage. Use it to compare, not to diagnose yourself.

All adults, from the 30s through the 50s

  • A review of a large sleep meta-analysis in healthy people reports that time spent awake after falling asleep rose by about 10 minutes per decade from age 30 to 60. That is a small, gradual change.

20s and 30s

  • Your need for sleep is not lower than anyone else's. The National Sleep Foundation recommends 7 to 8 hours for people 65 and older, similar to the recommendation for younger adults.
  • In the diary survey above, younger adults rated themselves more tired on average than older adults did.
  • The medical causes of fatigue listed later in this article are not presented by MedlinePlus as specific to any age group.

40s

  • For some women, the menopause transition (perimenopause) can begin several years before menopause, according to the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD). Menopause usually happens between ages 45 and 55.

50s

  • NICHD gives 51 as the average age of menopause, and the National Institute on Aging (NIA) gives 52 for the U.S. Both describe it as varying from woman to woman.
  • NIA says some women start having trouble getting a good night's sleep around midlife, and that hot flashes at night can disrupt sleep.
  • NICHD says long-term lack of sleep during this time can lead to fatigue, lack of energy, and memory problems.
  • NICHD also describes surgical or medical menopause, caused by removing the ovaries or uterus or by certain treatments, as a separate situation worth discussing with a clinician.
  • Hormone changes in men are not covered here because I did not verify a source for them.

60s and later

  • The National Sleep Foundation report says the need for sleep does not decrease with age, but the ability to sleep can.
  • The report describes natural changes that can make sleep feel lighter and less restorative: more awakenings, less deep sleep, shorter sleep, and a tendency to fall asleep and wake earlier.
  • The review of the sleep meta-analysis says age-related increases in nighttime arousals tend to level off after 60.

“Tired but Not Normal”: Flags That Deserve a Medical Look

MedlinePlus says fatigue is common and usually not due to a serious disease, but it can signal a more serious physical or mental condition. These are among the causes it lists:

  • Anemia, including iron-deficiency anemia, and iron deficiency without anemia
  • An underactive or overactive thyroid
  • Sleep disorders, including insomnia and obstructive sleep apnea
  • Depression or grief
  • Medicines, such as sedatives or antidepressants. It also names antihistamines, blood pressure medicines, sleeping pills, steroids, and diuretics (water pills)
  • Persistent pain
  • Alcohol or drug use, especially regular use
  • Other illnesses, including diabetes, heart failure, kidney disease, liver disease, and infections that take a long time to recover from

Book an appointment if you have:

  • Fatigue or weakness you cannot explain, especially with fever, unintentional weight loss, or regular sweats
  • Constipation, dry skin, weight gain, or trouble tolerating cold
  • Many wake-ups during the night
  • Frequent headaches
  • Insomnia, or feelings of sadness or depression
  • A medicine, prescribed or not, that may cause fatigue or drowsiness

Contact your provider right away if you have: confusion or dizziness, blurred vision, little or no urine, recent swelling and weight gain, or thoughts of harming yourself or of suicide. In the U.S., you can call or text 988 to reach the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. For a medical emergency, call 911 or your local emergency services.

Do not stop or change a medicine on your own. MedlinePlus says to talk to your provider first. For example, it notes that some antidepressants may cause or worsen fatigue, and that your provider may need to adjust the dose or switch you to another medicine.

What a Visit for Fatigue Usually Involves

According to MedlinePlus, you will be asked about your medical history, your fatigue, and your lifestyle, habits, and feelings. Your provider will likely do a complete physical exam. Tests that may be ordered include blood tests for anemia, diabetes, inflammation, and infection; kidney, liver, and thyroid function tests; and a urinalysis. Treatment depends on the cause.

The Two-Week Energy Log

This log is a note-taking tool, not a medical test. The two-week length is a practical choice for this article, not a clinical standard. Its job is to turn “I feel worn out” into specifics a clinician can work with. Rate energy on any 1-to-5 scale you like, and keep it the same all two weeks.

Each morning, write down:

  1. Bedtime and wake time last night, and roughly how many times you woke up
  2. Whether you feel rested, and your morning energy rating

Each evening, write down:

  1. Energy ratings for morning, afternoon, and evening
  2. The one activity that felt hardest, and anything that used to be easy and now is not
  3. Naps, with start time and length
  4. Caffeine and alcohol, with rough amounts
  5. Every medicine and supplement you took, and any new one or dose change with its start date
  6. Mood: sadness, worry, or loss of interest
  7. Other symptoms: pain, headache, fever, sweats, constipation, dry skin, feeling cold, weight change

At the end of two weeks, circle:

  • Patterns, such as low energy on days after poor sleep or after a certain medicine
  • Anything on the “book an appointment” or “right away” lists above
  • Your top two questions for the visit

If trouble focusing is part of what you are noticing, our article Attention Changes in Adults: What to Track Before a Health Visit walks through a similar record.

What You Can Do Next

  1. Start the log today. Two weeks of notes is more useful than a memory of “a while.”
  2. Cover the basics MedlinePlus lists: enough sleep, a balanced diet with plenty of water, regular exercise, ways to relax, a reasonable schedule, and less alcohol and nicotine.
  3. Do not rely on caffeine. MedlinePlus says stimulants, including caffeine, are not effective treatments for fatigue and can make it worse when stopped.
  4. Bring everything you take to the visit, including labels for supplements. MedlinePlus suggests discussing with your provider whether any supplemental vitamins might help you. This article does not evaluate supplements and recommends none.
  5. Do not wait on the log if anything in the “right away” list applies. Contact a clinician or emergency services.

Limits of This Article

  • It cannot tell you why you are tired or whether your tiredness is normal for you.
  • The diary study measured average tiredness, not how old people feel and not any disease.
  • The decade checklist covers only changes the sources support, and several decades have little detail for that reason.
  • If you are already seeing a clinician, follow their advice over anything here.

Sources

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